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Moving with Children
All Children
- Involve the whole family in the move process as early as possible. Tell children why you're moving in a way they can understand.
- Share information about the new area, communities and homes you are considering. Point out local attractions that are of particular interest, such as beaches, theme parks and zoos.
- Remember that children will pick up on your emotions. If you or your spouse/partner are apprehensive about the move, try to keep these feelings from the children and present a united, positive front.
- Encourage and maintain a dialogue. Children don't necessarily act out in response to a move. Some might become quiet or withdrawn, or show no apparent concern. Probe beneath the surface, to make sure they've absorbed this information.
- Watch for any acute sadness, moodiness and anger. These emotions are normal for a time, but if you notice changes in appetite, insomnia or other drastic changes, this can be a sign of depression. If your child is exhibiting these symptoms, he or she should be evaluated by a mental health professional.
- Expect it to take up to several months for children to adjust to a new home (longer for older children).
Younger Children
- Be patient and reassuring. Younger children might not understand the concept of moving. They might believe you will be returning to the home soon, or that you'll be leaving the home's contents—or even them--behind.
- Help your children to close one chapter of their young lives and open a new one. Encourage them to say good-bye to friends and exchange phone numbers and e-mail addresses. At the same time, gently help them focus on the future.
- Pack younger children's' belongings last and unpack them first. Remember to hold out a few favorite toys, stuffed animals and clothing items. When you arrive, let younger children help you to unpack, arrange and decorate their rooms.
- Expect younger children to temporarily become more dependent on you. Tantrums or tears might become more frequent, potty training might lapse and children might temporarily develop new fears.
- Encourage children to share their anxieties with you. Keep an even closer eye on their schoolwork than normal. You might want to accompany them to school for the first few days.
- Help children form new friendships. Ask them to tell you about the children they meet and try to arrange simple outings with one or two new friends for ice cream or another treat.
Older Children/Teens
- Set your older, computer-glued children loose on the Web to do some advance reconnaissance on the area. This helps to get them more involved and excited and can provide useful information for the whole family.
- Give teens reasonable control over their bedroom decor. While you might have to swallow hard, this traditional teen refuge becomes even more important during a time of upheaval.
- Encourage teens to get involved in favorite activities in the new location. With close ties to friends, school and activities; they can have a particularly hard time with moving. Sports can provide a sense of continuity and community as well as reducing stress.
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